Bridesmaid Accidentally Posts Wedding Seating Chart Online, Exposing Bride's Blunt Notes About Guests Erin ClackSeptember 16, 2025 at 11:15 PM 19 Getty Wedding seating cards (stock image) A bride shared on Reddit that one of her bridesmaids posted her wedding seating chart online ahead of the event,...
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Erin ClackSeptember 16, 2025 at 11:15 PM
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A bride shared on Reddit that one of her bridesmaids posted her wedding seating chart online ahead of the event, revealing the blunt notes she wrote about various guests
"[It's] stuff that was never meant for public eyes," the bride said
The bridesmaid claims she posted the chart by accident — but the bride suspects it may have been intentional
A bride has found herself in a sticky situation after her bridesmaid posted her wedding seating chart online ahead of the event, revealing the blunt notes she wrote about various guests.
The bride detailed the dilemma in a post on Reddit's "Wedding Drama" forum, beginning by noting that she is getting married this November and has put "way too much thought into the seating chart" for her reception dinner.
"I wanted to keep certain family members apart and I didn't want exes sitting anywhere near each other," she explained.
In the lead-up to the big day, one of the bridesmaids had been "pressing" the bride about where people would be sitting. "I brushed it off at first, but she kept asking, saying she just wanted to 'make sure the vibes were good,' " the Redditor wrote.
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Then, last week, the bride was shocked when she received a message from a guest saying, "Hey, I heard we're at the boring table in the back?"
She was understandably "confused" about how this guest knew anything about the wedding seating — until she discovered that her seating chart, complete with her candid "handwritten notes," had been posted in a private Facebook group that the bridesmaid runs.
"And here's the kicker: the chart wasn't just posted… my notes were included. Notes like 'keep cousin Amy far from ex-BF,' and 'don't put Aunt Linda near the open bar,' " the bride said. "Stuff that was never meant for public eyes."
When the bride confronted the bridesmaid, "she swore it was an accident," explaining that she only meant to screenshot the seating chart for herself but mistakenly posted it to the Facebook group of 80-plus people.
"Yeah, right," the bride wrote, seemingly implying that she didn't believe the bridesmaid's story.
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And now, with the wedding just weeks away, the bride has had to scrap her original seating chart and create a completely new one — while doing damage control with guests.
"Now I've got people salty about where they're sitting, and I'm redoing the entire layout two months before the wedding," she wrote.
Reacting to the saga in the comments, readers agreed with the bride that it seems unlikely that the bridesmaid shared the seating chart by accident.
"That was clearly malicious," one person wrote, while another said, "I seriously doubt you can upload a pic to Facebook as a mistake. Even boomers know which buttons must be pushed. I can't imagine why anyone would do this on purpose, but the questions, the pressure and an oopsie just don't add up for me."
Someone else chimed in: "Imagine being one of those guests who found out you were specifically placed at the boring table or had a note saying you needed to be kept from the open bar. That's a whole new level of social humiliation she inflicted on people."
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As for reworking the seating chart, one person advised the bride to let it go.
"I would just toss the seating chart and let people sit where they want. Those who do not speak will keep away from each other, and the ones who like their wine can be minded by their children/partner/parents," they wrote. "You are stressing too much over something no one cares but you."
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