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- Bride Calls Sister's Boyfriend 'Selfish' for Rescinding Offer to Help with Wedding Planning Due to Excessive Requests</p>
<p>Charlotte PhillippAugust 10, 2025 at 1:00 AM</p>
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<p>A woman is questioning what to do after her boyfriend withdrew his offers to help her sister with some wedding planning activities</p>
<p>The woman said that her sister crossed her boyfriend's boundaries by asking for too many favors, such as using his mountain cabin, picking up people from the airport, and hauling supplies in his truck</p>
<p>Now, the sister is "begging" her sister to step in and "change his mind"</p>
<p>A woman is questioning her next step after her boyfriend withdrew his offers to help her sister with some wedding planning activities after she asked for a few too many favors.</p>
<p>In a post shared to Reddit, a woman whose sister is set to get married soon opened up about the series of events that led to her boyfriend backing out amid the planning process.</p>
<p>"So my sister (Ava) is getting married and she had asked my boyfriend (Rob) to help her with a bunch of things," the woman begins her lengthy post. "First she asked him to help transport things. He has a pickup truck and she was asking him to help out during the rehearsal dinner, wedding day stuff like that. He agreed, no problem."</p>
<p>The next favor came when the bride-to-be asked if she could host her friends at Rob's cabin.</p>
<p>"We live near the mountains and Rob has a cabin in an awesome spot, walking distance from a lake," the post continues. "Before we met, Rob lived there because he's a hermit. It's an amazing spot and we use it a lot. He made her promise, she'd leave it in pristine condition after they were done, but he agreed."</p>
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<p>"Finally, she asked if he could help her haul a bunch of stuff out there for the party. At this point, I could tell he was getting annoyed," she continues.</p>
<p>The Redditor jokingly described her boyfriend as a quiet person who has "a character limit on the amount of words he uses a day," typically responding with a simple "yes, no, ok, fine."</p>
<p>"When Ava asked him, he answered with, 'Is that it? Anything else I can help with?' That's too many words," the poster adds. "I tried talking to Ava and telling her to stop because it won't end well. She brushed me off with, 'You're overreacting. He's very sweet.' No, he's sweet to me. He was being nice to her as an extension of his affection to me."</p>
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<p>The Reddit user added that her boyfriend is "either all in or nothing," noting that he "will try something once not like it and never eat it again, but if he likes it he'll eat it all the time, multiple times a week."</p>
<p>"I feel like I have to explain how Rob is. He's either 0 or 100," she shares. "He's from a former USSR country maybe it's more common there. But there is no middle ground."</p>
<p>"He once refused to help a mutual friend because he had talked too much trash in basketball. Alternatively, he was ok with letting my bestie stay with us for over two months after she went through a terrible break up," she explains as an example.</p>
<p>The Redditor emphasizes that her boyfriend wasn't agreeing to help her sister "because he likes her," he "was doing it because she's my sister."</p>
<p>"So, when Ava asked him to meet some of her friend at the airport what I thought was going to happen, happened," she shares. "He said no and he's not doing any of that other stuff either. My sister is hysterical. She's been begging me to change his mind, she has no backup plans, her wedding will be ruined, how can he be so selfish etc."</p>
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<p>"My mom and our friends are also asking for my help. But I'm not doing it," the poster finishes, asking Reddit to help her figure out if she and Rob were in the wrong.</p>
<p>"If I talked to him about it we would just get into a fight over something we don't even disagree about. I feel bad for Ava but I warned her."</p>
<p>The Reddit community quickly took the couple's side, noting that her sister owes Rob an apology.</p>
<p>"She pushed and pushed and pushed. And she DIDN'T LISTEN," one comment said of the bride-to-be. "I think your sister caused the entire thing and is owed not a single apology. So, as matter of fact, she OWES apologies to you and Rob. She acted entitled and found out she isn't."</p>
<p>"Your sister kept pushing because she believed he would give in to all of her demands. She sounds very entitled. It's her wedding. She needs to take care of her business," another added. "Sounds like a guy who has boundaries and isn't afraid to say NO."</p>
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