"I Have A Boyfriend": 45 People Who Are Hilariously Bad At Reading Social Cues Gabija SaveiskyteOctober 6, 2025 at 2:40 PM 0 Have you ever experienced a moment when you just wanted the earth to open up wide and swallow you whole? Purely because of something you did, or said, in front of other people...
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Gabija SaveiskyteOctober 6, 2025 at 2:40 PM
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Have you ever experienced a moment when you just wanted the earth to open up wide and swallow you whole? Purely because of something you did, or said, in front of other people.
Maybe it was that time the words left your mouth and remained hanging in the air for a second too long. That evening you realized the brilliant joke you thought you'd made didn't land quite as you'd intended. The morning you enthusiastically mistook a stranger's wave for one directed at you. Or that compliment you kindly gave that came across more as an insult.
Don't worry, it happens to the best of us. Social interactions are, after all, a minefield of unspoken rules, hidden cues and subtle signs. And sometimes, we miss them completely. While we might replay our awkward and embarrassing moments a thousand times over in our heads, rest assured, they are universal. And no one is immune to the occasional, messy blunder.
Someone recently asked people to share the times they seriously misread social cues, making everything weird for everyone involved. The answers were too funny not to share, so Bored Panda has put together a list of the best.
Many might leave you feeling a whole lot better about your own mortifying moments. And others could have you laughing literally out loud, as you realize foot-in-mouth is, sadly, a pandemic that none of us can easily escape.
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#1
One time i was at the orthodontist and they were checking my invasilgn fitted properly so she told me "say your address" i replied with "i'm a dress" then she said "no say your address" so i repeated louder "i'm a dress" didn't realise what she actually meant til id left the appointment.
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Some moments live on in our minds rent-free for years to come. Especially if they left us feeling embarrassed by our own awkward behavior. Granted, some of us have more mortifying memories than others. But generally, no one is immune to making the odd social blunder now and again.
Something that can help minimize the number of foot-in-mouth moments we have is learning to read social cues. So what are they?
According to Jaunty, a website that markets itself as "the gym for social skills," these are non-verbal signals that people use to communicate their thoughts, feelings, and intentions. The signals can be subtle or overt, and "often convey more information than words alone," notes the site.
#2
I saw a guy trip and fall on the sidewalk and rushed forward to help them. I was thinking "I hope they're alright" and "did they get hurt". Kneeled down, locked eyes, said "I hope you're hurt".
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#3
It was Halloween at the nursing home I worked at and I decorated with a huge cemetery scene. I didn't realize until the hospice nurse pointed it out💀
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Social cues can include body language, facial expressions, tone of voice, gestures, eye contact, distance, and... wait for it... silence.
Missing these hidden signs can not only lead to awkward situations and misunderstandings, but could even end up damaging relationships. "Misreading a colleague's body language during a meeting or failing to catch the tone of a partner's voice can have significant negative implications," warns Jaunty.
On the flipside, knowing how to perceive and react to social cues can help us build and strengthen interpersonal connections.
"When you can recognize and interpret social cues, you can adapt your behavior and communication to suit various social situations and avoid misunderstandings or conflicts," notes the site.
#4
Got into an elevator and the lady asked where I was going and I proceeded to tell her my plan for the day. She said, "ok but what floor do you need to go to?" 🤣💀.
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#5
Working in a theatre selling ice cream with no card machine. Had a man ask if I had a card machine and instead of saying "I'm afraid not." I looked him in the eye and said "I am not afraid".
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#6
I had just gotten married and my new last name was Black. Wasn't used to it yet and UPS brought a package and said "are you Black?" And I gave him a confused look and said "…no I'm white" and walked inside with my package. Still haunts me.
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According to verywellhealth.com, it's estimated that around 60% to 65% of social communication is through non-verbal behaviors.
For example, directly looking into someone's eyes can signal interest, attentiveness, or serious intent, while averting your gaze can signal disinterest, discomfort, or distraction. "Even the angle of one's gaze or the rolling of eyes can be interpreted as conveying sarcasm, disapproval, or impatience," adds the site.
#7
In high school asked this guy in wheelchair how he kept his sneakers white…I still think about it from time time 😔.
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#8
I thought tossing someone's salad meant beating them up. Proceeded to threaten this guy that I was gonna toss his salad.
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#9
I work in healthcare. I finished a prisoners exam and said "you're free to go!" And he looks and me and says "no I'm not".
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How close someone stands to you can also say a lot. "Being close or leaning into someone can be used to express affection, while pulling back or angling away may express disapproval or shock, or to convey that one's 'personal space' has been invaded," explains verywellhealth.com.
Jaunty's experts believe that improving learning to read body language is one of the best ways to improve one's ability to pick up social cues. They advise paying attention to other people and actively observing them during social interactions.
It also helps to pay attention to your own body language during conversations since it impacts how others perceive and respond to you.
#10
15 yrs ago I spent half a semester writing "Show Show Media" in my notes for an internet marketing class because I didn't realize my Chinese professor was saying "Social" 🤣😭😅.
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#11
I'm a piano teacher. Once the dad came in to say goodbye to the student during lesson ended it with "love you, cookie" and idk why, I out of reflex said "love you too daddy".
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#12
A coworker told me their little brother looked like a mini m&m. I said "oh really? Which color?" After a few awkward moments he said "No, the rapper, not the candy".
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"Some common body language cues to look for include posture, facial expressions, and hand gestures," explains the Jaunty site. "For example, crossed arms might indicate defensiveness or discomfort, while an open posture suggests confidence and approachability."
The communication experts add that a furrowed brow might suggest confusion or concern, while a smile indicates happiness or friendliness.
#13
Husband told me to order pizza. I rehearsed what to say in my head. Called the pizza, I panicked and said "Hi papa John's, this is pizza" 😩 I hung up quick & had my husband do the order.
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#14
This man with caterpillar eyebrows approached me while I was browsing. He asked if I needed help and I said no I was just eyebrowsing. It was 7 years ago and I think about it at least once a week 🫠☠️.
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#15
As a server I meant to tell a couple to "enjoy the rest of their days" but I stg I don't know where the "s" on days came from. It became so sinister and I didn't know what to do, so I backed away 💀.
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We mentioned silence earlier. And here's why it's important.
"Silence is a powerful nonverbal communication tool that can convey various emotions and thoughts," notes Jaunty, adding that it can indicate contemplation, agreement, or disagreement, depending on the context.
Practice pro-active listening during conversations if you want to improve your ability to recognize the meaning of silence. And pay attention to your own moments of silence. "By paying attention to both verbal and nonverbal cues, one can develop a better understanding of how silence is used to convey meaning in different situations," Jaunty explains.
#16
We were at a party and my friend took a pregnancy test and it was negative… I yelled "yayyyy!" And then her and my friend both looked at me and said "no that's not good we been trying for months "💀💀.
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#17
One time I was at a restaurant and I have bad peripheral vision so when the waitress came to take my plate I thought my plate was inexplicably sliding off the table so I screamed & grabbed it from her.
#18
One time I took a freshly misted bunch of cilantro out and dusted it allover the face of who I THOUGHT was my daughter. Turns out it was just some random shopper.
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When there's not silence, don't forget to pay attention to someone's tone of voice. Experts believe this is a crucial aspect of nonverbal communication, as it can convey a person's emotional state and attitude.
"By listening to the pitch and tone of someone's voice, one can often get a sense of their mood, level of interest, or emotional state," Jonty's experts say. "For instance, a high-pitched, excited tone might indicate happiness or enthusiasm, while a low-pitched, monotonous tone could indicate boredom or disinterest."
Feel free to share your own mortifying moments of awkward embarrassment in the comments down below. Who knows, it might help a few of us avoid making the same mistakes that you wish you hadn't.
#19
I was buying tampons from the corner shop next to my work and the cashier said "has it just started?" Awkward af I said "yes I came on just now" & she said "😳 I was talking about the rain".
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#20
I met Guy Fieri last weekend and when I walked up to him he went for a handshake and said "hi what's your name?" And I replied, "Hi my name's Sarah!! What's your name?" 🤦🏻♀️
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#21
I worked at Dutch bros and when a customer made a fist to give me his change I fist bumped him and said "hell yeah" then he kept it hovering there and said "no..I'm giving you my change" 💀.
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#22
I met this couple at a hotel swimming pool once. We were talking about self defense and I said "I've always wanted to learn Kama sutra" i thought i was saying Krav maga 😭😭 they just stared and sat in silence.
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#23
I worked at a bank and in certain situations needed a fingerprint. Asked for a right index finger and we locked eyes as I realized he didn't have an arm 😭.
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#24
My aunt found a pair of shoes she liked & modeled them around the store. Another woman tapped her on the shoulder & said they were hers. Aunt was ready to fight until woman said no, she wore them in.
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#25
A lady asked me for toilet paper in a stall next to me. I handed it over. She started talking about her date, I was responding. She said, I'll call you back the lady that handed me toilet is listening.
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#26
They were telling jokes in my class. There was this kid in wheelchair named KJ. He was black.... they said "what has legs, IS brown but can't walk" I confidentially said "KJ!!!!" they were referring to a table.
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#27
2 JW's knocked on my door, introduced themselves as Elder Jones, and Elder Smith, I said "wow you both have the same first name? and it's unique too!"...🙄🙄🙄.
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#28
When studying abroad I asked the hotel concierge for more toilet paper. He replied with "yes, can I have your number?" To which I replied "no I have a boyfriend." He was asking for my room number.
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#29
I was so nervous the first time I went to the gyno (she was also my mom's gyno & she delivered me) I blurted out "you gave birth to me!" She was like I most certainly did not lmaooo 💀.
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#30
Was waiting tables and I was meant to ask a table if they wanted a refill on their water but buffered and just went 'woah??' And held an empty bottle menacingly at them for a good 10 seconds.
#31
I asked a waiter for a box for my remains (instead of leftovers).
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#32
Idk if this counts but I clapped at the wakanda forever intro that was made as a moment of SILENCE for Chadwick Boseman. I didn't understand the cue 🤦🏽♀️literally keeps me up at night.
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#33
Congratulated a woman after she told me her daughter went to ICU (I thought it was a University) 🙈.
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#34
In Irish, the words engaged and lunatic are similar. Was doing an interview for my masters degree in teaching and told my interviewers I've been a lunatic for three years, instead of engaged. The stares still haunt me.
#35
The first time we went to a character meal at Disney I got all weird when we met Winnie the Pooh and I made my kids get up and like, bow at him and call him "Sir Pooh" - idk what the hell happened.
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#36
At Panera I figured they'd ask "what could I get you" so I was gonna say broccoli "chedder bowl please" but they asked "hi how's your day" in the nicest voice. all that came out was CHOCCOLI BREADER😭.
#37
My hubby's new coworker met us at a bar for a drink , brought his partner, I ran up to them, " OH HI !! YOU BROUGHT YOUR MOM !" 💀 She was NOT his mom. Annnnnnd she hated me instantly.
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#38
I have a sailor moon tattoo and someone asked me if I knew all the lyrics to the theme song… I panicked and said no because I have narcolepsy???? I don't have narcolepsy. I also do know the lyrics.
#39
Recently I was talking to my fiancé's friend Nathan, and told him that my fiancé has a friend named Nathan he would really get along with.
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#40
I worked at nothing Bundt cakes and I was serving a lady and she asked why there was such little frosting and I said oh there's actually a surprising amount of cream in the Bundt hole.
#41
I was at my dad's friends house when i saw pictures on the fridge of a young man in scrubs she told me they were her son. I said ohh wow he's a doctor she said no he's incarcerated 😳 those were not scrubs but his jail uniform 😭.
#42
I was once on my way to babysit and the mom was telling me they're planning to adopt again, i said "oh what kind?" thinking she meant another dog, had no clue the little girl i babysat was adopted 😭.
#43
A cashier at aldis had to step away for a second and when she got back I was expecting her to say she was sorry or excuse herself but she said "how's your day?" And I said "don't worry about it." 😭.
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#44
I'm a GX instructor. I was showing my class a push up modification on our knees and encouraged them to not feel bad for taking the modification by saying "I do some of my best work on my knees!" 🤦🏻♀️.
#45
I'm a pharmacy tech and at my first job we had to verify patient's month of birth at pick up. a lady was picking up meds for her son, Dirk, but I said "what month was dork born?".
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